Love or Lust? ♥

A lot of people get really confused being in love and the word love in general. Also a lot of people get confused between lust and love. Im not 100% sure about it eitherm but Im going to try my hardest to explain what I know and my opinion. Like Ive said before, no body knows what being in love is until you  find somebody to make you believe love is real. A lot of people think love is a feeling. Its not. It’s a physical emotion. Its sorta like magic, it just happens. Especially when you least expect it.

Back to my topic, lust and and love are totally two different things.  “Lust takes you over, you do something you want for all the wrong reasons.” Quoted Cody Mckenna. Lust is just something you want very very bad.  People who are truly in love base their relationships on respect for each other, compromising behavior and selfless attitude. They are ready to sacrifice anything for their partner. Lustful relationship brings two people close only to have fun and both of them are selfish in their demands. They don't have any respect for their partner and don't have any commitment plans in their minds.

Love is profound, deep and infinite. Lust on the other hand is a temporary longing, a shallow feeling and one-dimensional craving. Relationships based entirely on lust are often very short-lived. Physical attraction is also the basis of love, so telling them apart sometimes becomes difficult.

Interview about love :)

 Love is complicated, Love is love. No one really experiences it until they actually fall in love with someone.
I interviewed a kid from my class named Cody Mckenna about love and what he thinks about it.
1. How do you feel about love?- Love is complicated thing that I try to avoid cause as soon as you fall, you have fallen and you think about that person all the time.
2. Are you in love?- No I am not, I chose not to be in love.
3. How do you know when he is the one?- I get this feeling and I want to be around him, they will make you smile and put you in a good mood.
4. Is love just a word for you or a feeling?- In all reality its a feeling people cant help but feel. It is rare and people confuse it with lust.
5. Can you spend the rest of your life with 1 person?- Nope because I am terrified of committment.
6. When was the first time you noticed you liked people?- I started realizing I liked men at the end of 7th grade.

Not online love theories♥

People say love is just a word til someone comes around and gives it meaning. That indeed is true. My mom always told me" Don't find love, let love find you and you'll be the happiest girl on the planet. Someday someone will come and treat you the way you should be treated, like a princess." I believe her don't get me wrong but I just hate waiting around for something that can come unexpectedly. I am a very inpatient person and waiting to me is like dying.

I interviewed my mom a couple times about how my parents met. They have been best friends since they were in 10th grade. My mom was really good friends with my dads sister and she grew closer to her and him because they hung out all the time. They were best friends, they were comfortable with each other, tell each other everything and they went to each other when one of them had a problem and needed to vent. My dad had dated my moms cousin when he was in 10th grade and it didn't last at all. Then my dad kept asking my mom out and she kept on denying him because she didn't feel that way for about a year and a half. Til 11th grade prom came along and my mom had found out that my dad was taking somebody else and that made her incredibly jealous and SHE wanted to go with him, not anyone else. She went to prom that night, and he we was with his date so my mom went up to my dads best friend and told him she wanted to be here with him. My dads best friend told him, and my dad dumped his date that night and went with my mom. They hung out all the time, then 12th grade they started to date. They have been together for 30 years now, and happily married for 24 years.

They have showed me the true meaning of love, and it can last. You can make it work, you just have to work for it and not give up. If its what you want, never give up. You never know how beautiful something might turnout to be.

Top 10 Reasons To Get Married :)

Marriage to some people isn’t important. To them its like okay, it’s a ceremony that says were together forever blah blah blah. But to be honest, its not just that. Its more than that, no one understands it until you are actually going to get married and you want to be with this person for the rest of your life. Its your soul mate and partner for life, not just another person you really like. It’s a promise in front of your family and god that you promise to be together for the rest of your life, you will honor and cherish each other for as long as you both shall live. Here are the following reasons to get married, if you don’t agree feel free to not even bother looking.

No.10 Marriage makes you live longer. One of the ways that getting married improves your life is by making it last longer. Various studies have indicated that happily married men tend to outlast their single counterparts.

No.9 Marriage increases your earning power. You know that big-screen TV you've been saving for? Well, if you were married, you'd probably own it by now. Being married means sharing expenses and splitting the costs of major purchases.

No.8 Marriage gives you a platform to build your bloodline on. OK, so technically you don't need to be married to have a family, but marriage is still the standard method for starting a family. The nuclear family, despite its flaws, remains a sought-after model. That's why having kids is another argument in our top 10 reasons to get married. Being a father is a dimension of manhood that just about every guy wants to experience -- and marriage is the most stable and secure environment in which to start a family.

No.7 Marriage prevents you from dying alone. Marriage is an investment in your future. Sure, you sacrifice some of your sweet single years, but in exchange you get to make a long-term investment in one person, building a deep, abiding love that has the potential to last a lifetime.

No.6 Marriage makes you more attractive. When you find somebody, you want to impress them, and by impressing them you dress nice and make yourself look appealing.

No.7 Marriage brings financial benefits. You're not a 1 person income anymore, if your significant other has a good job they bring in the cash as well.

No.8 You're not searching anymore. When your single, you have to search around for a person. All that hardwork is done with.

No.9 You're spending your life with 1 person only. Marriage means being with someone forever, not just a couple years then you're done. Its a forever deal.

No.10 You finally get to call someone yours. Not having someone makes you upset lets face it. Everyone wants to be love and be loved we all attention.