Last but not least:)

Every week I have been writing about love and how to find it, keep it and embrace it. When truth of the matter is, I think I am finally going to wait and be patient for love. I used to be so stuck on the fact that I need someone to make me happy. When in reality, you can only make yourself happy. Im only 17 years old, Im going to be a senior in a month and Im single. Im not in a rush to find anyone, letting love find me.

But there is one thing, there is a boy. To be honest, I have never been so happy and into a guy before that it feels like Im dreaming. Its like hes my best friend for a reason. And to be honest I think im falling for my best friend. He has everything I want in a guy, we may argue and nto agree on a lot of things, but opposites attract my mother has always told me. I will love one day, I know I will aslong as I keep the faith and stay positive. It may be the guy Im about to date or it may not. I do know I love him but I don’t think im in love with him. I mean I could, but if it does, I know ill be one happy girl.

Be patient with love. It will eventually come your way one day. But in the meantime, just have fun. I have been single for about a year now, and im perfectly fine. It may not be easy all the time, but you don’t have to be sad and depressed because of someone. Im the kind of person who thinks everything does happen for a reason and whats meant to be will find its way. That’s what I always think of whenever im going through a rough time, I stay positive and think clearly this wasn’t meant to be then. If it is meant to be, it will find its way and just be happy. Even if it means waiting, people think being single means you’re going to be alone forever. It just means finding love isn’t your time yet, and you need to be happy in the meantime and forget about it. “For one human being to love another; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation.” (Rainer Maria Rilke) Go on a date and see where it takes you, get to know someone. Its all about taking risks and chances in life. Even if you have been hurt before you have to let your guard down and put down the wall in order to have someone come into your life and change it for the better. To me, you live life once, so take risks and be happy. When love comes knocking on your door, answer it. Thanks J

Abortion. For it or against it?

What is so “safe and easy” about having a abortion? What is so fascinating and great to have one? Because YOU made a stupid decision about having sex and you knew the circumstances? It’s a 50/50 shot, when you have sex. You get pregnant or you don’t. You can use all the protection you want, its still a 50/50 shot. It really does get me aggravated when people say that they support abortion and it’s the best thing If you don’t want a child. If you don’t wont children of your own, atleast wait til the baby is born and give it up for adoption or figure something out, don’t kill your child that’s inside of you because you don’t want it. Its not a choice when you have a child unless you are trying for one.

“Each year, two percent of women aged 15-44 have an abortion; half have had at least one previous abortion. At least half of American women will experience an unintended pregnancy by age 45, and, at current rates, about one-third will have had an abortion.” (http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/fb_induced_abortion.html)

In my opinion, when you have a abortion you are a muderer. You killed a innocent child because you don’t want it? Im sorry that’s not your choice. What did that child do to you that you decided to kill it? You shouldve thought about that before you decided to go have sex. You can be cautious and stay protected and have it. But when you’re going around just sleeping around, then odds are you are going to get pregnant. Even if something drastic happens, like god forbid you get raped and you get pregnant, would you still get a abortion because you didn’t want it? I know its terrible that you got raped, but don’t kill a child. Give it to a adoption agency.